Being With The Family

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My days are filled with shadowing the “family” in the habitat and doing foot trimming and target training. I am having a blast! It really is a gift to be able to focus solely on these limited responsibilities. Even though the days are long, each brings immeasurable rewards.

Target training has really caught on. Now all the family members are joining in. It is so much fun to play the training game with a wall of eager students, ranging from senior citizens to calves. It is a riot as they jockey for the prime spot and the opportunity to respond to requests for their feet, ears, forehead and side. They all excel at moving their side into the target — it is so cute. Once they understand the request for side, they respond with a quick movement, leaving their front feet in place and swinging their hip around to make contact with the target. When they are all competing for a turn it is like a chorus line of feet and ears. What a joy!

Getting to know the family is an unexpected experience, one I cherish deeply. Today I felt a sense of belonging to an elephant family again as I moved along with the herd, like a ripple in a stream, flowing together effortlessly across the pasture. I had not inserted myself into the family because my time here is limited, but today I felt that unnamed energy that is elephant, all inclusive, the matriarchal collective, being part of a loving family. I soaked in the acceptance they radiated, grateful for each one of these magnificent individuals.

Later I met two new Park residents, grande dames I had not had the pleasure to meet before. Much patience was required because they were so frightened by the idea of having their feet touched. The mahouts did their best to reassure them and, although I didn’t complete a full manicure, we made some progress. A little at a time — fine, I am in no hurry. My goal is for these elephants to know that when they come to my pedicure salon they will be treated kindly and with respect. If they leave without experiencing a pedicure, that is okay.

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8 responses to “Being With The Family”

  1. sherryheim Avatar
    sherryheim

    What a delight to read your words, today, Carol and to know that you are feeling connected to the herd in that special way. How fun to have the whole family playing the target game and being able to experience their antics, getting to know each one on a more personal level. It is so easy to kind of lump animals together as being a certain way but by interacting with them, we learn that each one is as individual as we are and what a glorious lesson that is to behold. Thank you for sharing your days with us and for bringing a big smile to my face as I read. Be well and enjoy your time with “The Family” in the same way as they seem to be enjoying you.

  2. LauraC Avatar
    LauraC

    Oh tears for joy Carol! So happy that you are getting to experience all of this. And even more so, grateful for the knowledge and care for elephants you are spreading out there to the world. These elephants are so darn cute standing up there proudly to have their feet pampered! And your description of them competing to play the “target” game is absolutely precious!!!!

  3. Jody@JodysJungle.com Avatar

    Carol, I got goosebumps when you said you felt you belonged to an elephant family again..how wonderful!
    I also don’t think I’ve heard you say you were “having a blast” in quite awhile.
    Good for you!
    Jody

  4. Hrimati Dasi Avatar

    Carol, it is so nice to read how you are filled up with serving the elephants. Your home is where your service is. Would love to learn the “target” thing from you. once you know more about the timings of your travels to India on this trip, please drop me a line, so we can make the arrangements for your visit here.

  5. deb_elephants Avatar
    deb_elephants

    Animals recognize a soul that is there to love and care for them and you have always been one of those souls. So good to see you with elephants again. They are like water to you as are you to them – refreshing, invigorating, and life giving. Although you are kept from your girls in Tennessee, you are helping the short and long term care of their long lost families in their homeland. You are our Elephant Whisperer :).

    Love and light,
    Deb and Tim

  6. Beth Avatar
    Beth

    Ahhhh, Carol, tears and goosebumps here, too, reading this newest blog addition. You are one with all elephants and it is the place (home) that you belong. I love knowing all these elephants in Asia will be helped because of you and your teaching…..this is an amazing journey you are on. Great things coming to all because of your love and dedication….thank you, Carol….

  7. Sandra G Avatar
    Sandra G

    This entry really made my day. I can just see it.

  8. Tory Avatar
    Tory

    It is wonderful how you are influencing everybody – elephants and mahouts. Well Done!

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